Hmm.. Agree with Suzanne. You wrote. Quote. "While some men may claim that they don't enjoy cuddling, the truth is that when a man is deeply in love he will want nothing more than to snuggle and hold her close" So you have to be "In love" to cuddle? We all need cuddles.... I am gay. My wife has all of these sexy things you have mentioned, she has her little even sexier things... but I really do think that a woman does not have to do these to make a guy go crazy.